http://www.holtinternational.org/adoption/lg.recru.shtmlThis will be us in a couple of months!!!!!
When I watched this video- I cried. (of course)
We are SO looking forward to this day!!
I have to admit though, I am getting a little anxious. Not a lot....but a little. I know that it will be a difficult transition for this little girl (I think we've almost decided on her name....will keep you posted on that. until then, I will refer to her as "
Ji"...that is her given last name.)
Ji is in foster care right now & I can't imagine how hard it will be for her to leave that family & come here to the states with us. A new language, new foods, new care takers, new home, new big sister
Addalie (who will most likely overwhelm her w/her excitement.)
Ji will be almost 2 years old when she gets here....Sometimes, I turn the tables & think of
Addalie & how much she needs consistency & schedules etc. -& think how would it be for her to leave her "comforts" --that's how it will be for
Ji...But I also KNOW that God is faithful. He is bringing this little girl into our home!! He is preparing
Ji's heart & our hearts too.
Also, one of the main topics in some of our adoption education classes was about attachment. It is such a BIG piece to adoptions...& I won't get into all of it, but we have been told over & over that it may be a difficult transition. Typically (not always) adopted children attach to one parent over the other....& especially at the beginning won't even let the "other" parent hold them.
I am trying to prepare myself for what is ahead....
Probably not much of a break for a long long time. Probably not much sleep at night for a long long time. (I recently talked to someone who said their daughter just started sleeping "normally" at night after 2 1/2 years of being in their home--those same people also said that their daughter (4 yrs. old) cried
every time the mom left the room for almost 2 years.) And, we are told that these examples are "normal" with attachment...not the exception.
SO-yes, we C A N N O T wait!!! & at the same time, I am already looking to the Lord for strength in what is to come! How kind of Him to give us
Ji!!!! =))